Discover the true secret to lasting love and intimate relationships in this timeless Christian classic by Josh McDowell.
In The Secret of Loving, bestselling author and renowned Christian speaker Josh McDowell reveals a powerful truth that transforms how we approach relationships: Finding the right person begins with being the right person.
Whether you’re single, dating, engaged, or married, this practical and faith-filled guide shows you how to build deep, lasting intimacy by focusing on personal character development rooted in biblical principles. Instead of chasing an ideal partner or relying solely on fleeting feelings, McDowell equips readers with the tools to become someone worthy of mature, committed love.
What You’ll Learn in This Book
McDowell shares eleven keys to mature love that help you cultivate essential qualities for healthy relationships, including:
- Commitment and selflessness
- Forgiveness and trust
- Effective communication
- Respect, realism, and emotional maturity
- Building a strong sense of self-worth grounded in God’s love
Drawing from Scripture, personal experience, and real-life insights, the book addresses common relationship struggles—self-image, conflict resolution, past baggage, spiritual growth, and more—while emphasizing that lasting love is a choice and a discipline, not just an emotion.
Perfect For
- Singles seeking to prepare for healthy relationships
- Couples wanting to deepen their marriage
- Anyone looking for biblical wisdom on love, intimacy, and personal growth
First published in 1985 and still highly relevant today, The Secret of Loving (also subtitled How a Lasting Intimate Relationship Can Be Yours) has helped countless readers move beyond superficial romance to experience genuine, fulfilling connections. McDowell’s clear, honest, and encouraging style makes complex truths accessible and actionable.
Transform your approach to love. Start becoming the right person today.
Ideal for personal study, couples’ discussions, or small groups. A must-read classic from the author of Evidence That Demands a Verdict and More Than a Carpenter.
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